Don’t you ever just want to email your exes – or hell, those dates or hookups that never even made it far enough to hit “ex” status – and inquire what went wrong? Or, at the very least, what freaked them out? I think after I’m good and settled and married I may do just that, though by then, I bet they’ll have long forgotten why. So, if you feel like enlightening inquring minds, I’d love to know.